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How to Find True Love

Unlock Your Romantic Flow and Create Lasting Relationships

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By Francesca Hogi

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Modern dating is broken. It’s time for a true love revolution.

It’s rough out there. From dating apps that don’t reliably connect us, to the unrealistic ideal of love we’ve been sold by fairytales and romantic comedies, finding love can feel like an uphill battle. Combined with digital overload, rapidly shifting cultural norms, and an ongoing loneliness epidemic, it’s no wonder so many are disillusioned with modern dating and relationships. And yet, romantic love and connection still remain a key factor in what motivates and fulfills us. Here’s the good news: your desire for true love isn’t a pipe dream – it’s a call to date differently than you’ve been taught. Francesca Hogi, certified matchmaker and dating expert, is here to show you a world of romantic possibility beyond our broken dating culture, and it all starts from within.
     In How to Find True Love, Hogi provides a better, more realistic method for actually finding and keeping real love. Dating can’t be hacked, but it can be transformed. With her advice, exhausted romantics will find comfort in releasing the impossible ideal of a “one true love,” and instead come to realize that true love is first and foremost a type of relationship, not one individual person. Co-creating a true love relationship with a great partner is a choice, one available to everyone who wants healthy love. Hogi will show you a holistic approach to dating through the four dimensions that make true love your reality:
  • Mindset: think bigger about love
  • Heartset: feel better about love (and yourself)
  • Soulset: connect with a higher love 
  • Skillset: date in alignment with love  
Above all, true love is really an inside job. Rooted in optimism and purpose, How to Find True Love is a necessary guide for the weary dater. No matter your romantic history, present circumstances, or dating challenges, you can make true love inevitable.

  • “When I first met Francesca Hogi, I really loved her perspective on love and relationships. I later learned that my friends were sharing her episode on my podcast with their friends to help them better navigate their dating lives. And it worked! I’m grateful all those pearls are wisdom are now in this book!”
    Simon Sinek, Optimist and New York Times bestselling author of The Infinite Game and host of the podcast A Bit of Optimism
  • "If you’re single then you need this book in your life! It’s my love bible! Read it, devour it, sleep next to it in bed every night! Thank me later!"
    London Hughes, comedian, TV writer, and author of Livin My Best Life, Hun
  • “In a world saturated with ideals and expectations about love, discovering what true connection means can often feel elusive. How to Find True Love invites you on an enlightening journey that blends mindset, heartset, soulset, and skillset to help you cultivate the deep, fulfilling relationships you are looking for. I share Hogi’s belief that true love is available to all, without exception.”  
    Sara Nasserzadeh, PhD, author of Love by Design: 6 Ingredients to Build a Lifetime of Love
  • "Francesca Hogi is a gold-standard love coach. Her methods are heart-centered, practical, and rooted in authenticity. How to Find True Love captures her essence beautifully. It provides readers with life-changing love lessons designed to help you grow into, not just a relationship, but also the best version of yourself. This book weaves effortlessly through a variety of modalities that will empower readers to go deep to find meaningful connection and lasting love."
    Damona Hoffman, author of F the Fairy Tale and Relationship Expert of The Drew Barrymore Show
  • "Francesca’s book beautifully captures the essence of true love—taking responsibility for yourself and all your parts to build meaningful connections that bring joy and enrich your life. I highly recommend it to anyone seeking a real relationship grounded in self-awareness, self-advocacy, and self-worth."
    Aycee Brown, Spiritual teacher, author, and host of Is My Aura On Straight? podcast
  • "We’re led to assume our relationships will just work out. Francesca has created a thoughtful, tangible user manual for finding and embracing love in every relationship. An important reminder that true love is an active practice." 
    Julie Rice, Co-founder, SoulCycle and Peoplehood
  • "This isn’t just a book about finding love—it’s a book about finding yourself first, which is the foundation for everything else. Francesca's approach is rooted in self-awareness, self-advocacy, and deep respect for the journey each person must take in order to truly love and be loved.Whether you’re in a relationship or navigating the dating world, this book is a must-read for anyone ready to cultivate authentic, lasting love. I couldn’t recommend it more highly."
    Paul C. Brunson, Relationship Expert & TV Host

On Sale
Apr 8, 2025
Page Count
304 pages
Publisher
Balance
ISBN-13
9781538769591

Francesca Hogi

About the Author

Francesca Hogi is a love coach and educator with a passionately pragmatic and holistic approach to helping people find true love. A former corporate lawyer, she began blogging about dating in 2008 to share her hard-won lessons on the topic. In 2014, she pivoted from law into matchmaking and coaching to follow her passion for (positively) meddling in other people’s love lives and never looked back. Since then, she’s worked with hundreds of single clients of all backgrounds to love themselves and create loving romantic partnerships. She’s the host of the top-rated relationship podcast Dear Franny, and has appeared in media from The Today Show to Marie Claire to the New York Times. In 2020, she founded The True Love Society, a community of single people dedicated to living their best lives while on their dating journeys. In 2023, Francesca gave a TED talk about her vision of a world where everyone has true love.
 
Prior to her love career, Francesca appeared on two seasons of the iconic reality TV show Survivor. Francesca holds a B.S. from Syracuse University and a J.D. from The University of Michigan Law School. In 2024, along with Felicity Fellows, Francesca co-founded Era of This, a new venture dedicated to human connection through meaningful experiences, education, art and beauty. Learn more and get updates at http://www.francescahogi.com

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