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How to Change the World

Make your voice heard! Learn five ways to make a difference, from What Can I Say? author Catherine Newman.

Illustration © Debbie Fong, excerpted from What Can I Say?

Being the best person you can be is honestly the most powerful tool you have for change. But there are some noisier ones, too:

Talk openly, courageously, and optimistically with your family and friends about what you believe and why.



Illustration © Debbie Fong, excerpted from What Can I Say?

Use social media to share books, ideas, causes, songs, art, and whatever else you can to spread the word. Share a poem about being gay. List your five favorite Asian American authors. Do an interpretive dance about the benefits of solar energy.

Write to your school administration insisting that they teach a more diverse range of books, adopt a Black Lives Matter curriculum, or start a recycling program.

Contact your political representatives by email or phone to demand that they address the issues you care about. It’s okay if you don’t have the solutions all figured out. “I’m really worried about the prisons in our state being overcrowded ,” you can tell your senator. “I’m hoping you will make a plan to address this.”

Be noisy when you need to be. As congressperson John Lewis once said, “Never, ever be afraid to make some noise and get in good trouble, necessary trouble.”

Illustration © Debbie Fong, excerpted from What Can I Say?

Don’t forget to read the newspaper (or tap into other reliable news sources) to stay informed about what’s going on in the world.

Excerpted from What Can I Say © by Catherine Newman.

Catherine Newman

About the Author

Catherine Newman is the author of What Can I Say? and the award-winning bestseller How to Be a Person, as well as two parenting memoirs: Waiting for Birdy and Catastrophic Happiness, and a middle-grade novel, One Mixed-Up Night. She's also the co-author of Stitch Camp. Newman is the etiquette columnist for Real Simple magazine and the editor of the James Beard Award–winning kids’ cooking magazine ChopChop. A regular contributor to publications including the New York Times, Romper, Cup of Jo, and Grown & Flown, Newman lives in Amherst, Massachusetts, with her family. Visit her at catherinenewmanwriter.com.

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